Learn to Meditate

Most of us lead hectic lives as we balance ourincense, create an atmosphere conducive to
work with personal obligations. We may bequieting your mind and body.
stressed out juggling all of this and need some5. Warm up. Before meditating, practice yoga or
sort of stress release, even if it's just a fewstretch out your body to relax your muscles and
minutes a day. Or we may be perfectly happyslow down your mind.
with our busy lives, but still could use some time6. Select the most comfortable posture. Most
to bring some peace and calm into our world.meditators sit in a chair, on the floor, or on a
Meditation has long been a practice that letsbench with a straight back. Find what works best
people find that inner peace and outer calm. Itfor you so you stay alert but relaxed.
allows us to take a break from the busyness of7. Start with 3-part breathing. Breathe in through
our lives. It gives us a respite from hurrying aboutyour nose into your abdomen and let it expand.
so we can create some outer calm. And itBring the breathe into your lungs and let them fill
provides our minds with a rest from thinkingup. Collapse your abdomen and push the air out
overtime and growing more stressed by the day.through your nose.
If you've never really experienced inner peace8. Continue slow, deep breathing. Breathe slowly
and outer calm, you're in for a real treat.and deeply to a count of 5 for each of the three
Meditation is not just for monks, religious fanatics,parts, until you feel sufficiently relaxed.
or recluses. Today meditation is for everyone9. Select a method for each meditation session.
who seeks sanctuary from the world-even for aYou might try counting breaths, counting numbers
few minutes a day. And it's not all thator saying a mantra (a simple one is I AM). Listen
complicated or difficult to do to get instantto music, watch a candle. Observe your thoughts;
benefits. You might not become a masterstare at a mandala. You can also experiment with
meditator and achieve instant stillness of yourchanting, visualizing a relaxing scene, doing yoga,
mind the first time you do it, but you will getor simply practicing a state of mindfulness. All are
immediate relief from your frantic life as youall acceptable methods for meditating; find out
retreat into that quiet place within.which one works for you.
Here are 10 simple steps to start you on your10. Keep a journal. Record your experiences with
way:meditation to see what benefits you're getting;
1. Commit to your daily practice. Decide that youthis will keep you motivated to keep at it and try
will meditate every day, even if just for 5different things.
minutes.Some people meditate for years and never
2. Find a place where you can meditate everyachieve a perfectly silent mind, however, if you
day. Pick a quiet spot where you won't bedon't make that your only goal, you won't set
disturbed and meditate there every day, as youyourself up for disappointment or failure. Just look
will build up energy in that space.at the precious time you take to sit quietly in
3. Choose the time. Meditate the same time eachmeditation as a mental spa, a break in your
day if possible, best times being early morning orroutine, a gift to yourself. You need to take time
early evening. Start out for 5 minutes and add aevery day to recharge your mental and physical
few more minutes each day until you're up tobatteries. Consider meditation as your tool to
20-30 minutes.achieve inner peace and outer calm to return to
4. Prepare the environment. Light a candle, burnyour life refreshed.