Meditation Warning #1 - Read This Before You Sit Down to Meditate

One of the most frequently asked questions I getthat process, you will also let go of the
about meditation is: "Why do I have to sit thismental-emotional holding patterns and past pain
way?" You see, I suggest a very particular wayand trauma associated with them.
of sitting when you meditate and this prompts allWhen you let go of tension along your spine, your
sorts of responses, such as:spine will come into alignment. This also has more
Isn't meditation about what is happening in yourthan just a physical impact. Yes, your nerve
mind?signals will travel more strongly and efficiently to
What does it matter if you sit, lie down, or standyour muscles and vital organs and this will benefit
on your head?your health and function. In addition, as your
Does it really matter if you sit cross-legged or insystem works better as a whole, you'll
a chair?experience a feeling of inner integration.
Does it make a difference if you sit back againstAs you strengthen your spine, you will become
a backrest or sit forward on the front edge ofmore physically capable of holding yourself upright
your seat?during your daily activities. You will also strengthen
My back hurts when I sit that way, do I have to?your "backbone," your ability to "stand strong" and
The bottom line is this: you can meditate sittingfollow through on your intentions. These common
up, or lying down, or standing on your head. Youexpressions are not mere metaphor. They are
can sit cross-legged or in a chair. You canbased in the physical-energetic reality of the body.
meditate resting against a seatback or not. ManyAll of these benefits are enhanced by consciously
people have done all these things with success. Ifsitting upright during meditation. You learn to
you have a physical disability, you may have toobserve and accept your experiences as they
meditate in a body position I wouldn't normallyarise (including back pain), let go of reacting to
recommend.your experiences (such as by saying "I can't do
So why do I make such a point about sittingthis" or "This is too hard for me" which creates
upright on the front edge of your seat with yoursuffering on top of pain), and maintain an intention
feet parallel and flat on the floor? The reason is(by maintaining your posture).
this: For those who can meditate this way, thereSeated meditation with correct posture also
are many benefits. It may not be easy at first,serves as an important barometer for your
but the positive results are worth the effort.mind-body development. If you can sit still for
First, it is common to experience some back painhours and feel blissful the entire time,
when you initially sit in an upright posture withoutcongratulations, your mind-body-physical-emotional
back support. You may feel tension in your neck,system is likely in good shape. But, as is more
between your shoulder blades, or in your loweroften the case for the rest of us "mere mortals",
back. Is this a bad thing? Why does that happen?the tension and discomfort that arise during
If this is the posture I recommend, shouldn't itmeditation provide important information about
feel better? Isn't meditation supposed to feelwhere your weaknesses lie and how you can
good?address them in meditation, in the rest of your
In my view, meditation is for personaltraining, and in daily life.
development and spiritual growth. It will help youFinally, upright posture during meditation will keep
de-stress, relax, and feel better. It will help youyou more alert and aware during your practice.
calm your emotions, clear and quiet your mind,The effects of your meditation practice will also
and connect with inner guidance. It will developcarry over better into your daily activities, most
your ability to concentrate, visualize, and focusof which require alert awareness in an upright
strong intention. It will help you to be moreposition. Living a purposeful, self-responsible,
conscious and integrated. A big factor in theseconscious life relates to having an upright, relaxed,
results is posture training.aligned spine.
If you feel pain in your back when you meditate,So with all this in its favor, and admitting that it
this is because of chronic tension along your spine,takes some training to achieve, my suggestion is
spinal misalignment, and/or weak spinal muscles.to sit forward in an unsupported posture for a
When you sit in an upright unsupported positionminute or two at the beginning of your practice
consistently over time, you will strengthen yourtime. Then move back against your seatback for
spinal muscles, release chronic tension, and comethe remainder of your meditation time. Gradually
into better alignment. These postural effects willexpand the time that you sit forward without
also carry over into your psychological andback support.
emotional experience.Watch for my follow-up article, "Meditation
Without sitting in this way, you may not becomeWarning #2, in which I'll share why I warn against
aware of your weak muscles, your chronicsitting cross-legged on the floor or on a cushion to
tension, or your misalignment. The posture bringsmeditate. In the meantime, be sure to try my
these things to your awareness. As you becomefree 7 minute releasing technique below.
aware of tension, you can consciously let it go. In