Meditation - What it is and What it Takes

Meditation can be defined as any activity in whichto meditate on a daily basis, even if only for 5
you take control of your mind's thoughts, eitherminutes at a time, although 20-30 minutes per
to focus thoughts on only that which you chooseday are really better.
to think of (contemplation), or to still yourMeditation is a discipline or technique that has
thoughts so that there is as little thinking asexisted since ancient times, in one form or
possible, leaving only true relaxation. When youanother. Some of the well-known types are of
read this, you might think, "but that's simplyIndian origin (from India, not the North American
concentration, or relaxation--I do that all the time."type of Indian), although even the North American
In truth, you probably do not--you usuallyIndians have always had similar practices, such as
unconsciously have a passing thought, situation, orgoing on "vision quests," or sitting in "sweat
problem in mind and you think about all thatlodges" for contemplation. You may have heard
somewhat unconsciously, or subconsciouslythe term meditation in the same sentence as
without being aware of it. Often this type of"Zen," or in relation to Buddhism or Hinduism, but
thinking relates to past or future events,many other cultures have used it as well--the
sometimes with accompanying emotions beingQuakers used this type of discipline in their
present like worry or guilt. True meditation ideallyworship.
requires either absolute stillness of mind withoutIn some forms, I believe that prayer is talking to
thoughts, or if thinking is involved, requires focusGod, and meditation is listening to God. Though I
only on the present, with a dispassionatethink this is true, it is also not necessary to have
perspective and perfect calm.any particular beliefs to use meditation to your
Successful meditation requires dedication andbenefit, only a strong desire to strive for inner
discipline. With practice, one can develop a quieter,calm and peace. Success in meditation is not
more focused mind. Many people have becomerelated to religion, and it does not preclude other
happier, more balanced and calm by beingspiritual beliefs or practices. It does require
committed enough to this process. To get thepersistence and patience with oneself, and the
real long-term benefits, one must take the timedesire to improve one's life experience.