Step 11 How To Meditate The Twelve Steps And Meditation How To Meditate And Relaxation Spirituality

Simple none religious meditation for use with steptense? Then relax your attention a little. With this,
11 of the 12 step recovery program.the mind will probably calm down, and you may
Focusing the mind on the body can be readilyfind some thoughts drifting in reflections,
accomplished while sitting. You need to find a timedaydreams, memories, or doubts about whether
and a place which affords you calm and freedomyou are doing it right! Instead of following or
from disturbance. A quiet room with not much incontending with these thought patterns, bring
it to distract the mind is ideal; a setting with lightmore attention to the body, which is a useful
and space has a brightening and clearing effect,anchor for a wandering mind.
while a cluttered and gloomy room has just theCultivate a spirit of inquiry in your meditation
opposite. Timing is also important, particularly asattitude. Take your time. Move your attention, for
most people's days are quite structured withexample, systematically from the crown of the
routines. It is not especially productive to meditatehead down over the whole body.
when you have something else to do, or whenNotice the different sensations - such as warmth,
you're pressed for time. It's better to set aside apulsing, numbness, and sensitivity - in the joints of
period -- say, in the early morning or in theeach finger, the moisture of the palms, and the
evening after work -- when you can really givepulse in the wrist. Even areas that may have no
your full attention to the practice. Begin withparticular sensation, such as the forearms or the
fifteen minutes or so. Practice sincerely with theearlobes, can be `swept over' in an attentive way.
limitations of time and available energy, and avoidNotice how even the lack of sensation is
becoming mechanical about the routine. Meditationsomething the mind can be aware of. The
practice, supported by genuine willingness toconstant and sustained investigation is called
investigate and make peace with oneself, willmindfulness (sati) and is one of the primary tools
develop naturally in terms of duration and skill.of Insight Meditation.
Awareness of the BodyAwareness of Breathing
The development of calm is aided by stability, andInstead of `body sweeping', or after a preliminary
by a steady but peaceful effort. If you can't feelperiod of this practice, mindfulness can be
settled, there's no peacefulness; if there's nodeveloped through attention on the breath.
sense of application, you tend to daydream.First, follow the sensation of your ordinary breath
One of the most effective postures for theas it flows in through the nostrils and fills the
cultivation of the proper combination of stillnesschest and abdomen. Then try maintaining your
and energy is sitting. Use a posture that will keepattention at one point, either at the diaphragm or
your back straight without strain.- a more refined location - at the nostrils. Breath
A simple upright chair may be helpful, or you mayhas a tranquilizing quality, steady and relaxing if
be able to use one of the lotus posturesyou don't force it; this is helped by an upright
(Illustrations and notes on posture are given later.)posture. Your mind may wander, but keep
These look awkward at first, but in time theypatiently returning to the breath. It is not
provide a unique balance of gentle firmness thatnecessary to develop concentration to the point
gladdens the mind without tiring the body. If theof excluding everything else except the breath.
chin is tilted very slightly down this will help, but doRather than to create a trance, the purpose is to
not allow the head to loll forward as thisallow you to notice the workings of the mind, and
encourages drowsiness.to bring a measure of peaceful clarity into it. The
Place the hands on your lap, palms upward, oneentire process - gathering your attention, noticing
resting gently on the other with the thumb- tipsthe breath, noticing that the mind has wandered,
touching. Take your time, and get the rightand re-establishing your attention - develops
balance. Now, collect your attention, and begin tomindfulness, patience, and insightful understanding.
move it slowly down your body. Notice theSo don't be put off by apparent `failure' - simply
sensations.begin again. Continuing in this way allows the mind
Relax any tensions, particularly in the face, neck,to eventually calm down.
and hands. Allow the eyelids to close or half close.If you get very restless or agitated, just relax.
Investigate how you are feeling. Expectant or