The Only Self Help Course You'll Ever Need - Meditation

About three dozen men file in to a drafty room,Meditation is not meant to help us deny the pains
quickly taking seats in wooden pews. A chaplain,and stresses of life. It is, instead, all about
dressed in a flowing brown robe and a gold sash,earnestly immersing ourselves into them. The real
draws their attention from the front. He beginsplace where our pain burden sits is within our
teaching them how to breathe, focus and emptybody. By sitting still and just being with it, we allow
their minds. He begins to meditate and the roomit to roam free within ourselves. The anger or
falls silent. They lower their eyes with the chaplain.aggression that prison inmates, or any of the rest
Like his their heads are shaven, though notof us for that matter, feels no longer needs to
because they are Buddhists or men of anyoscillate between forced suppression and
particular faith, but because they are inmates ofexplosive eruptions, but instead it can float untied
the notorious Men's Central Jail in downtown LA.within us as we give it the time and space it
At first meditation can seem like a paradoxicalneeds to work itself through.
thing for violent offenders to engage in, but whenMeditation is my ultimate self help course. When I
understood it is, in fact, an ideal match. And notdo it, all sorts of emotions and feelings arise that
just for prisoners too; this ancient self help coursehave been down there for anything from days to
can, in fact, benefit anyone experiencing agitationyears. If I did not meditate and feel them within,
and suffering.no doubt, through some - largely unconscious -
The Men's Central Jail meditation course, run byroute or other, I would have pushed them out
volunteers, is one of several examples of prisoninto the world, and so inevitably added to my
based meditation classes. Like the others it is wellown pain and that of others.
attended by inmates and several examples ofMeditation is about being the inner observer -
how it has helped prisoners with their anger andwatching what is inside and not judging it. Through
behavior have already begun flowing out. "It's ait we will slowly gain an acceptance of who we
way to go beyond these bars" and the constantare and that, by definition, will make life better
agitation of prison life, says Joshua Silva, 25, whoeach day. If it can work for the inmates of an
has been incarcerated since last year for robbery.infamous LA jail, it can work for you too.