The Ugliness of Low Self Confidence!

How fine life would be if we all felt like a milliondo not criticize them or pick them apart. Well
dollarsneitherdoes anyone do that to our picture. We
24 hours a day,7 days a week! We would never,are our worst enemywhen we allow low self
ever feelinglike we have woken up in a pit, full ofconfidence to take priority in ourminds.
self confidencelows, having the energy to justHow does one fight this horrible war against ones
jump out of bed and meet theday with loads ofself?
enthusiasm and knowing that we are goingto getHabits are a very, very good way. I have done
through the day without worries of any kind. Theblogs onhabits many times. Hmm. Wonder why?
sunwill shine all day, with just enough breeze toProbably because it isthrough creating positive
keep ourbodies cool. Life is good, oh so good.thinking habits that we candrowned out the
NOT if you are a person imprisoned by low selfnegative stuff that controls are world ofpeace
confidence,it so is not. Low self confidence is aand happiness. I am not saying it will happen
very nastycharacteristic to have inside us. Itovernight. I am not saying that it will happen after
makes us feel weak. Itmakes us lose faith in ourone time ofdefeating the negative. What I am
actions and dreams. It can evenstop us fromsaying is that the more wefeel that we are just
going forward in our lives with relationships.as special as anyone else in theworld, or ask
It allows so many ugly negative thoughts to takeourselves, will this issue that is causing meso
hold of ourminds. Some will even try to escapemuch pain and agony mean anything tomorrow?
this gripping emotionthrough the comfort theyIf this is mylast day on earth, do I want to spend
feel in their eating patterns. Somebegin to trustit like this? Try tofeel like you are all new every
the emotion that creates mistrust, in ordertomorning. Nothing thathappened yesterday will
derail their thinking, only setting them up for adefeat our day today. What may seemso
historyof jealous explosions.devastating in that second, really is only because
We begin to act selfish, constantly thinking thatwe areallowing it to feel that way. Changing your
everyaction made is directed at us in sometrack is a veryimportant thing. I don't care what
negative way or thatwe are the butt end of theyou have to think aboutin order to do that, just
joke when we see people laughingand happen todo it. Think about anything to getyour mind to
be looking our way. We feel that we arechange. Eventually the your mind will do thaton its
beingcompared with others. We feel we cannotown. Yes, it's all habits and only you can do this.
ever do anythingright. We see negative in everyThis is something you must do for you. Your self
word that is said about us.respectwill guide you and give you strength. The
We want to share our pain and loneliness, so thathigher you buildyour self confidence, the stronger
everyonearound us can feel equally sad. Weall of you becomes. Thenyou will be able to
become habitual riders onthe roller coaster ofdefeat all of the negative emotions thatfight to
self-pity. We want to be the onlyperson in thecontrol your thinking. Do this for you. It's
world with any good qualities. We wantnodifferent than quiting smoking, exercising, taking
ourpartners to see only us and desire only us. Wecare ofyourself, even cosmetic surgery. All of
want ourpartners to only have fun when we arethese changes canand should only be done with
around them. We do notallow ourselves to haveyour best interest as yourgoal. No one else really
fun because we are allowing ourselfish habit ofcares in the end. How you live yourlife and find
low confidence to stand in our way. Noticeall thehappiness is totally up to you, so kick lowself
WE`s in this paragraph.confidence in the BUTT!
Our negative trap is working well, isn`t it? TheI know that if you really want something, you can
trap oflow self confidence is what will trigger alland willget it. That's a fact my sweet people!
the lows in ouremotions such as: low self-esteem,Make the WE syndrometurn into a non selfish WE.
low energy levels, lowsexual desires, low positiveThink of everything and everyonearound you as
thinking, low care in personalhygiene, low desires ina positive element that you need to createyour
life period.positive habits. As I have said so many times: If
Imagine watching a movie, and in this movie thereonlywe lived in a perfect world!
is aperson trying to get through life struggling with*********************************
all the"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire
WE`s that I have just described to you. Woulduniverse,deserve your love and affection."
you not bethinking, or if you are like me yelling, at-Buddha
them to STOP?**********************************
Would you not be thinking of ways to help them?"Every day I live I am more convinced that the
Weird isn`tit? The person in that movie is you, allwaste oflife lies in the love we have not given,
you have to do isstep outside of yourself, andthe powers we havenot used, the selfish
your ability to fix all ofthose WE`s is so simple.prudence that will risk nothing andwhich, shirking
We always think that we look funnyin pictures,pain, misses happiness as well.
but when we look at other people in pictures,we