| How fine life would be if we all felt like a | | | | them or pick them apart. Well neitherdoes |
| million dollars | | | | anyone do that to our picture. We are our |
| | | | worst enemywhen we allow low self confidence |
| 24 hours a day,7 days a week! We would never, | | | | to take priority in ourminds. |
| ever feelinglike we have woken up in a pit, | | | | |
| full of self confidencelows, having the | | | | How does one fight this horrible war against |
| energy to just jump out of bed and meet | | | | ones self? |
| theday with loads of enthusiasm and knowing | | | | |
| that we are goingto get through the day | | | | Habits are a very, very good way. I have done |
| without worries of any kind. The sunwill | | | | blogs onhabits many times. Hmm. Wonder why? |
| shine all day, with just enough breeze to | | | | Probably because it isthrough creating |
| keep ourbodies cool. Life is good, oh so | | | | positive thinking habits that we candrowned |
| good. | | | | out the negative stuff that controls are |
| | | | world ofpeace and happiness. I am not saying |
| NOT if you are a person imprisoned by low | | | | it will happen overnight. I am not saying |
| self confidence,it so is not. Low self | | | | that it will happen after one time |
| confidence is a very nastycharacteristic to | | | | ofdefeating the negative. What I am saying is |
| have inside us. It makes us feel weak. | | | | that the more wefeel that we are just as |
| Itmakes us lose faith in our actions and | | | | special as anyone else in theworld, or ask |
| dreams. It can evenstop us from going forward | | | | ourselves, will this issue that is causing |
| in our lives with relationships. | | | | meso much pain and agony mean anything |
| | | | tomorrow? If this is mylast day on earth, do |
| It allows so many ugly negative thoughts to | | | | I want to spend it like this? Try tofeel like |
| take hold of ourminds. Some will even try to | | | | you are all new every morning. Nothing |
| escape this gripping emotionthrough the | | | | thathappened yesterday will defeat our day |
| comfort they feel in their eating patterns. | | | | today. What may seemso devastating in that |
| Somebegin to trust the emotion that creates | | | | second, really is only because we areallowing |
| mistrust, in orderto derail their thinking, | | | | it to feel that way. Changing your track is a |
| only setting them up for a historyof jealous | | | | veryimportant thing. I don't care what you |
| explosions. | | | | have to think aboutin order to do that, just |
| | | | do it. Think about anything to getyour mind |
| We begin to act selfish, constantly thinking | | | | to change. Eventually the your mind will do |
| that everyaction made is directed at us in | | | | thaton its own. Yes, it's all habits and only |
| some negative way or thatwe are the butt end | | | | you can do this. |
| of the joke when we see people laughingand | | | | |
| happen to be looking our way. We feel that we | | | | This is something you must do for you. Your |
| are beingcompared with others. We feel we | | | | self respectwill guide you and give you |
| cannot ever do anythingright. We see negative | | | | strength. The higher you buildyour self |
| in every word that is said about us. | | | | confidence, the stronger all of you becomes. |
| | | | Thenyou will be able to defeat all of the |
| We want to share our pain and loneliness, so | | | | negative emotions thatfight to control your |
| that everyonearound us can feel equally sad. | | | | thinking. Do this for you. It's nodifferent |
| We become habitual riders onthe roller | | | | than quiting smoking, exercising, taking care |
| coaster of self-pity. We want to be the | | | | ofyourself, even cosmetic surgery. All of |
| onlyperson in the world with any good | | | | these changes canand should only be done with |
| qualities. We want ourpartners to see only us | | | | your best interest as yourgoal. No one else |
| and desire only us. We want ourpartners to | | | | really cares in the end. How you live |
| only have fun when we are around them. We do | | | | yourlife and find happiness is totally up to |
| notallow ourselves to have fun because we are | | | | you, so kick lowself confidence in the BUTT! |
| allowing ourselfish habit of low confidence | | | | |
| to stand in our way. Noticeall the WE`s in | | | | I know that if you really want something, you |
| this paragraph. | | | | can and willget it. That's a fact my sweet |
| | | | people! Make the WE syndrometurn into a non |
| Our negative trap is working well, isn`t it? | | | | selfish WE. Think of everything and |
| The trap oflow self confidence is what will | | | | everyonearound you as a positive element that |
| trigger all the lows in ouremotions such as: | | | | you need to createyour positive habits. As I |
| low self-esteem, low energy levels, lowsexual | | | | have said so many times: If onlywe lived in a |
| desires, low positive thinking, low care in | | | | perfect world! |
| personalhygiene, low desires in life period. | | | | |
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| Imagine watching a movie, and in this movie | | | | |
| there is aperson trying to get through life | | | | "You, yourself, as much as anybody in the |
| struggling with all the | | | | entire universe,deserve your love and |
| | | | affection." |
| WE`s that I have just described to you. Would | | | | |
| you not bethinking, or if you are like me | | | | -Buddha |
| yelling, at them to STOP? | | | | |
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| Would you not be thinking of ways to help | | | | |
| them? Weird isn`tit? The person in that movie | | | | "Every day I live I am more convinced that |
| is you, all you have to do isstep outside of | | | | the waste oflife lies in the love we have not |
| yourself, and your ability to fix all ofthose | | | | given, the powers we havenot used, the |
| WE`s is so simple. We always think that we | | | | selfish prudence that will risk nothing |
| look funnyin pictures, but when we look at | | | | andwhich, shirking pain, misses happiness as |
| other people in pictures,we do not criticize | | | | well. |